If you're just going to call me a slut, just don't bother. I rather be a slut then an idiot with a tight wedgie up my ass. You're just spamming up the comment feature. I'll try this bloody thing for a few days and see if people actually bother to say anything worthwhile. If they don't, then it really kinda defeats the purpose. You are completely welcomed to disagree with me, but you better have a good reason to do so, and you should do it nicely. Otherwise, go shit on your own blog and leave the people who actually have something worthwhile to say, alone.
Actually, I think it would be really interesting if people generally have intelligent, logical arguments and voiced them here, because now a whole lot of people are reading. And it will be nice to know that we aren't as conservative as the powers that be think we are. And maybe we're ready for a change.
My fingers are freezing off and I can barely type, so I'll just leave it off as that.
xoxox
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1 – 200 of 223 Newer› Newest»Great photographer. You look nothing like the photo on your blog.
You are truly one ugly whore.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder as they say and you can't be too pretty yourself anonymous if you're hiding behind an anonymous name.
I think SPG is gorgeous and I truly don't understand what all the fuss is about. We teach our children that sickening violent cinema is fine but that our own bodies are wrong?
What do I know though, I'm a decadent westerner - watch out, I might exert influence on you and destroy your morals with my powers of mind control.
You are the first truely liberated Singaporean !
Be proud of your own way & let the others remain in their HDB closet :-)
People have different perceptions and different ways of viewing others. As long as you are sure about what you are doing right now, i don't see why anyone should stop you, or have any authority to pass judgment over you.
Being honest is something very likeable and i like that in your blog. At least you don''t try to pretend to be someone else you are not.
=)
Hello everybody,
Basically Sarong Party Girl is a unique experience, an experience that enabled me and others who read this blog of course of getting a closer look into a person's joy, dreams, thoughts, and aspirations. Not being compatible with social norms (especially if forced by the government and not just the people) is nothing wrong, a person should try to be himself and not something else to please others.
All in all reading this blog has helped me learn so many things from this girl's way of life.
On the other hand though, and just commenting on the physical features, I find that Sarong Party Girl is not that all sexy. She has really small tits, in fact so small ( of course not by Asian standards), and she has a bit of a belly (as we call it in the UK), she needs to slim and exercise, I think that in real life this belly would look like a gut. She is not at all that sexy as she claims, I believe this bit of her blog is exaggeration.
Choliourou
One should understand that singaporean are still not as open as to the west. Singaporean thinking especially the elderly are more tradition and thus your action is consider to be unacceptable by many people. I personally think that perhaps you should think before you act. YOu might feel that you will be resonsiple of your own action and it has nothing to do with others. But wait, have you ever spare a thought for your parent? All these year of hardship they undergo to bring you up. Although your action do not bring harm to others but it brings hurt to your parent. You must understand that your parents have to be partly responsible of your action before you become an adult. How do you expect them to face their friends and relative? Maybe sometimes you should put yourself in their shoes. I do not oppose the way you blog but i do not fully agree with it either. All I can say is learn to love yourself.
Hi, girl,
You may like to read what a "mother" thinks at http://yancorner.blogspot.com/2005/06/surrender-thoughtfully.html
a mother
Nice art work. Like what Hans said, not great art but close. Hope you can take it in your stride and still continue to do what you what. Like posting more artsy fartsy pictures and maybe your very own homemade nightvision wild thang videos. Now that is more better.
Denise says you are Narcissistic And Desperate!, but that is commenting on the controversy you caused last week. After reading your columns(from the beginning) and looking at you pics and your boyfriends on SGs site. I have to say I agree. I will go along the lines of this analogy, that if a stripper is truly ugly and has a really horrible body, no one would pay any money to watch or admire. So it takes encouragement and comments from an appreciative audience ( In this case desperate white guys that need to F**ck asian pussys) So if thats where you are getting your encouragement, please go right ahead and be yourself, because I think we Singaporeans know how to guage a really good body, and a personality to boot, but I think you fall into the "chili padi" (short, no tits and no ass)level of the local FHM magazine, look to them for social acceptance.
honestly frm my point of the view, i feel the whole issue(of SPG's blog) has gone totally out of proportions and is getting ridiclous hype. What do we get out of flaming SPG? Let's juz let SPG live her life, while we continue to live our own(if u happen to have one). She's not bohtering us, why bother her? Unless u find the nudity bothering, then maybe u shld try shutting down the few million other pornsites on www. first before we do something abt SPG. Not defending anyone here, juz feel we shld get on with our lives and stop hyping this whole thing up. Lets all grow up.
I AM a mother of a teen and I do find SPG's thoughts fascinating. She writes honestly and is truthful to her emotions.She has not hurt anyone and her parents still love her so whats the big deal. give her a break people!!!
I'm curious if the men who sleep with you are as proud of it as you are. Do they have a blog to tell the world? It would be fun (and maybe even enlightening) to read from their perspectives.
just because there's this sudden hype about a blog by our very own Singaporean who happens do step out from this conservative and suffocating BOX and do what she really wants, write what she truly feels like writing .. doesn't really give fellow people here the right to blemish her with such names. you may have your opinions of how people should or should not write or post. but it doesn't give you the right to IMPOSE your ideas on others. look what have you people turn into, nothing but followers of the "stupidity norm".
sit down and think about your own life and perhaps you might realize there's tons of uglier things that you have done.. and the very fact you don't even have the guts to pen them down or be proud to say what you want or do.. . and when someone dares to step out of the box. you choose to slap her with tons of negativity and hurtful comments. i think you people are uglier in/out, more desperate then ever. are you all just jealous or envious she is young at 19 ..able to write and willing to be what and who she truly wants to be, that's why you are saying how ugly she is .. or how not"perfect" her body is .. or how slutty she is? are you THAT PERFECT? are you THAT demure and sweet?
if SPG was just another "foreign" blogger from another country, i believe half the people commenting here won't even bother commenting. or even say anything negative like this. people here would probably just read get over and done with it... and for all you know they end up being "avid readers" of her blog. just because she's a fellow singaporean doesn't give you people the right to say such things.
what's a goddamn blog for. desperate and narcissitic? i dont even feel that from this blog. hah. probably from some other rather "infamous"blogger .. perhaps.. perhaps..
I like the way you write and think don't bother wasting space writing about stuff like yourself getting flamed on the newspaper.
I've always loved the way you write, what you write about, and I'm sure there are people out there who wish they could have your kinda guts to do what you do, to have the kind of confidence and love for your own body.
Now I love the way you're handling this nonsense. I'm so proud of you! Keep it up babe! I'm always your supporter! Don't be too bothered about those people who have nothing good to say, they'll suffer the consequences of their actions someday.
I'm thankful for SPG's determination, but generally we're all still too conservative and I don't see the point of the big hoo-hah the media has made out of an url. I think we all need to be less conservative and be more confident of ourselves (and our bodies), else we will always continue to be a society that has close to zilch sex life.
Those people who enjoy shaking their heads at SPG, you should just bug off. If you can't be accepting of what you read at a blog and have NOTHING encouraging to say, I suggest you just keep your mouth shut and go on to another url. She doesn't have to read your nonsense.
I really fail to see the point of the big hoo-hah.If you think she's ugly,or has nothing worthwhile to say, or is nothing more than an attention seeker, why point your browser here in the first place?I find the that the articles are well articulated and interesting, at least up till the point SPG decided to address the critics.Live and let live.
gosh, why are people so mean? And stupid? Just delete those that makes no sense.
Don't take away the comments, i'm sure there are many people out there with something constructive to say. And one aspect of blogging is having the interaction with your audience. By the way, you do us proud. Glad to know that there are actually girls with beauty and brains around in little ole spore. :)
I'm curious, did you get your head examined or something? For a 19-year-old Kuching Kurap, you think your damn intelligent, sophisticated and what not just because you had read the Economist at such a young age? Or that you were fucked by so many desperate arty-farty Western men? It's lowlife scumbag like you who gives the rest of singaporean women a bad name. REally I wonder how come you could even get this far in life.
Exactly what I said. Comments are for 'comments' not for names calling and flaming.
As always, it is ALWAYS the dumb people making the good people suffer. Stop it already!
Keep the comments. We love it.
Well, its nice to finally be able to leave a comment.
Lady, its your damn blog, do as you will whatever you wish, as long as it is not against your values, whatever they may be. What others think, say, feel, express or opine shouldn't matter one iota!
People's values may differ from yours, but yours is to stay true to yourself and leave them be.
I say rock on. Whatever makes you happy, go for it! :)
well you're an exellent writer. i wonder if people will pay more attention to your great writing and less on all this ridiculous stuff about the photos. and anyway you have all the right to flaunt what you have(:
wish there were more people like you to make Singapore a more liberal country. im really proud that there's at least one sinaporean like you. you're your own person and i really respect that. yep. im behind you one hunderd percent!
I've been a great fan of yours and will be for a long time. You write with such maturity and sophistication, and you make honest, in-your-face comments. Your entries provoke thought and are always more entertaining than some shallow, superficial teenie booper.
What is beauty? In my opinion, if beauty is to be expressed through art, it should be appreciated with depth. Society in the 21st society has conditioned people to think that beauty is big eyes, pillowy lips, long hair, long legs, big boobs, with standard 36-24-36 stats, and people do things to change themselves into this model of 'perfection'. Photographers, sculptures and various artists have used models of all shapes and sizes to take photographs of and to paint. Their job is to bring out the beauty of that body. Its about expression. Nobody said that Michelangelo's David should have a more developed chest. Your body is a shell. Its not what it is physically, but the essence of the artists subjects.
The photographer obviously sees beauty in spg, and wishes to share it with us- for if you fail to see its beauty, the artist has failed in his work.
Do you see it?
Be comfortable in your own skin. Say and do what you deem is right and appropriate, not what society deems it to be. Thats the beauty of it.
you are who you are.
don't bother about others.
one thing i like about your blog is your ways of expressing.
coupla photos, helluva fuss.. sgeans have got nothing better to do.. DeniseK disses SPG? there were only 2 lines in the papers today.. so wtf? and heck those 'self-proclaimed artists' who tried to teach us a thing or two about proportion.. u haf the courage to live the life the way u want it to be n i respect u for having tt.. rock on gal!
Stop giving the bad articles airtime and lamers 1 liner worth of fame.
Pls continue writing as you have, as your writings are thoroughly enjoyable, save for the recent outbursts at the media.
I dare say you're the epitome of Singapore housewives' fantasies because at least you have the means and courage to do it while most of us can only lie in bed & fantasize and point fingers at you because everyone else is doing so.
People can only hide behind a monitor screen and act all righteous when they'll think twice about putting their asses on the line during crunch time.
This is Singapore for you, all talk and no action: NATO
So get out, go achieve your dreams that the outside world appreciates. By then, Singapore media will have to eat their words and feature you in their headlines.
You go gurl~
u write well. but lets face it,is ur popularity due to ur entries or ur photos? and are the reas0ns as simple as wanting to not hide in a closet or rather, wanting to seek attention? cuz y0u should kn0w that such acts do attract attention. are your intentions really that naive. you're no bimbo but what lies beneath that facade brings about numerous question marks.
hey hot lady. LOVE ur blog! especially those yummy pictures! too bad u cant post more... sob sob
Hello,
I am Brendan Thompson from Edmonton, Alberta, Canada. I like your blog, and I like the comments - very entertaining! And they say that Singapore is boring here...
Like I too have to question your thin-skinned reaction to the comments left behind - especially when one considers the "why white men" entry. This is not really a unique feeling - in Canada, there are certain blogging women I have come across where one could pretty much have thought the blogger was the same person, substituting "black" or "French" or "European" instead of white. I think, SPG, that you got it right on with the comment about the "allure of the Other" - certainly this also exists in North America. Certainly the same justification is that the locals are too "provincial, too predictable", etc. Exotic mannerisms can have their attraction. Similarly, the condescension towards the locals can create a strong reaction, and the posting of naked pictures on the Internet would scandalize a smaller town here.
But I have to question your surprise at this, which I find to be unique. Usually, I have found that those determined to buck mainstream societal values - whatever they are - tend to be less shocked and dismayed by a negative response to their behaviour.
Wish you well, and keep reading Vice, a magazine loved by everyone cool here (and started in Montreal, by CANADIANS, not Americans!)
everyone loves a controversy no matter how big or small..after all what could be more entertaining than public exposure? this will go away somehow so hang in there girl
You looks like a prostitute in geylang ... if i am your customer ... i will only willing to pay SG$5 for a night ...
I think you just overturned a great many people's ideal of the epitomal Singaporean girl. It forces people to look at their mothers, sisters, friends and lovers in a light they're not entirely comfortable with - i.e. desires they're not privy to and might be excluded from altogether - people don't like being excluded.
Plus, as a nation that makes it a core value to gun for international acclaim in All That Matters, overt sexuality (asian values et. al) detracts from the successes and forces people to look at the human side of things. That Mr/Ms perfect isn't all that perfect after all. Or that role models can as easily lead us "astray" as they can towards some earthly perfection.
(By the way, very brave of you to enable the commenting)
Rock on Izzy.
I have to ask - why does nudity bother Asians so much?
hey girl... i'm a singaporean uni student and i've been reading your blog from way back... think it was since last year.
No matter what a small minority may say, i enjoy reading your blog for its interesting content. After all you address an issue that not many others would touch. Its like a breath of fresh air in the singapore blogging scene.
So pls don't worry so much about the ugly comments. Be more thick-skinned. Maybe you're still a little innocent. In the real world,people get jeolous of others who are popular/successful, and they being petty minded, do all they can to slime/drag that person down. This is how the world works.
And if you choose to lash out back at them, it becomes counter-productive. Its better to just ignore and rise above them.Don't let your blog be hijacked by bitter animosity. The couple of posts where you lashed back at your critics made me cringe. That's not the way you want others to see you. Take your time to explain yourself in one post and that's it. Don't bring up the issue again.
You are a brave girl to do what others dare not do. Don't go down to their level by engaging in a brawl on who's right and who's wrong.
Anyway great job gal!Keep the posts coming!
Cheers
PrataKosong
Hey there.. truthfully, I've no idea what all this fuss is about.. someone is proud of who she is.. what she looks like.. why can't we just let her do whatever she wants? but I will say that it was bold of her for posting up whatever it is she posted..
I come from Malaysia, a country equally as "conservative" to Singapore in a lot more wayz and in some points.. even worse.. I think if someone from M'sia actually posted up a selfprotrait in that sought.. consider that person outcasted for life... this is what happens when your ethnic origin is like this.. of course, I agree that some points it is best to practice "conservation".. but that is a choice is it not?
here I'd like to point out that it is this sort of bold people that started inventing things or engineered technology in the past that has actually helped us get on to the sort of civilisation we live in today.. if people like Edison, Einstein, and even ancient people like Archimedes were just planning to live the way everyone does.. we'd still be walking around in robes.. there would not have been technology.. and there sure as hell won't be the internet.. btw, has anyone taken a look at the Michaelangelo's art? forgotten the name of it.. but wasn't it painted on the ceiling of a CHURH??
to those who are parents and say their kids could have picked up bad ideas.. believe me when I say.. "if there's a will, there's a way".. there are gonna be millions of ways that will introduce nudism, sex, human reproduction.. everyones going to learn about it eventually aren't they? what kids too young to understand? if they are too young to understand.. you think they'd actually give a flying cats ass that their looking at someone's nipples? chances are.. they'll only laugh.. "haha.. she lupa pakai baju"
I vote we leave it at that.. she already took the photo off.. whatever "harm" if there be any would have already taken place.. I vote we let her get on with her life.. how she lives her life is for her to choose.. you don't get to run her life.. thats' for her to do..
so girl.. I wish you luck in your future undertakings.. still got to compliment you on the fact that you had the "balls" to do it.. (figuratively speaking).. so party on spg.
It's good to know what your readers think and feel about your posts, but you have to be prepared for the anonymous jackals that lurk in the midsts who try to heckle you on every little small thing you do.
Seriously people, if you have nothing constructive or nice to say, then shut up. Else you're no more intelligent than a monkey's arse.
this is a poor imitation of belle de jour: http://belledejour-uk.blogspot.com who incidentally writes a whole lot
better,actualizes some money from her whoring tendencies and whose pseudonym derives inspiration from
a movie with a semblance of pedigree rather than some national joke.
Dearest Izzy,
There's more people who laughed watching that awful rip-off of the bachelor than ones who would value the opinion of its leading lady. ;)
Thanks for being the definitive voice of liberated young thinkers.
Isn't it amazing how a little sex can ruffle so many feathers? LoL.. There's not a single hater who isn't responding simply because you've touched their invisible soft-spots of insecurity. Fury and outrage are knee-jerk reactions of the small-minded after all.
None of them would dare dream of revealing their identities or faces anyway. It's so easy to judge loudly when you're anonymous. But it takes some balls to let people read everything, good and bad.
kisses!
"here's not a single hater who isn't responding simply because you've touched their invisible soft-spots of insecurity. Fury and outrage are knee-jerk reactions of the small-minded after all."
must be another young misplaced-arrogant kuching kurap who thinks they are damn smart and intelligent than those older than they are. wait till you grow old, young punk.
Can i book u for a night? call me at 90487672,kthxbye
There's a good reason you're famous now, you know? I don't know (and don't care) who you are off the internet, but on it, you project an image of a very attractive lifestyle. Sex, arts and uh... loads of holidays. Who wouldn't want it?
I guess people forget that you are human in the end... albeit with an unorthodox set of morals (or to some, no morals)
Isabella,
Don't even bother about those negative comments, you're getting on this post. You need to live your way and express yourself the way you do. The important thing is not how you live your life, but your ability to express feelings, experiences, and thoughts the way you do. Your main differentiator is clearly your ability to communicate ideas and philosophies in this blog, and that is being distracted by the media focus on the picture and the promiscuity. Don'y let that distraction get to you! It doesn't add anything to the main discussion you are having with your readers.
Finally, a comment page. But the line-up is pretty messy, tho =)
Just do whatever you want, heck with judgements and all.
You are a very brave girl to stand against all those that were hurled at you recently. I think the people who cast the first stone at you should feel ashamed at what they did. You have my respect on what you have stood for, the ground that you choose to hold faithfully to.
On the other hand, being brave enough to stand up for what we believe does not mean we are absolutely right and justified in our system of values. Just like you care for your parents and how they feel and did compromise a bit previously by taking down your photos.Often what we do have a certain impact on others. And when our close and loved ones actually feel the pinch for what we did, maybe it is time to re-think and reflect. Not about what we do is right or wrong but about what we do, does it has any impact on those who we truly care for?
Anyway, all that was my personal views. Thanks for the opportunity to pin this on your blog.
There is absolutely nothing wrong with what you are doing if you think this is the life that you desire. Sex rocks and sex is healthy for various scientific reasons and having lotsa pre-marital sex with caucasian does not equate to having no moral values. What seriously matter is that you achieve harmony with whatever that you are doing and if you can trangress all your traditional beliefs that you are brought up with plus you come in terms with the life you are living, everything is good then. Pre-marital sex is neither right or wrong. This is a liberal world and people should have the freedom to choose whether they wanna remain celibate or indulge in per-marital sex. Tangentially, it also means that others have no rights to judge you base on what they believe. They should not impose the "iron-rod" rules on everybody. They are making a fucking enormous fuss outta nothing but exposing your identity on the newspapers is just nothing but an act of imprudence.
Living in Asia should have taught you to be discreet about your sexual lifestyle. I'm very sure there are a handful of singaporean women out there having an active sex life or having "FB" (fuck buddies). However, they make it a point to keep their bedroom affairs under the blanket. You should never flash your pictures across the newspaper. I wonder what your parents are going through right now. You should have been wise enough to know that there are many jackass and jerks and shallow people out there who will percieve you as a whore or worse than a whore because they get paid and you don't really do (of course I think otherwise)
I understand that your feeling exasperated but well... I believe orgasms can certainly cheer you up just like they do to me. Haha...
Girl, you're awesome. Stay happy and you should try ice cubes next time. It's really fun.
Take care
Chiselle =)
definately someone with an attitude and not easily swayed by irksome remarks by brainless pple.
just nothing like a bunch of followers i'm facing out there.
strut your stuff, sarong party girl.
definately someone with an attitude and not easily swayed by irksome remarks by brainless pple.
just nothing like a bunch of followers i'm facing out there.
strut your stuff, sarong party girl.
You a clearly a very smart and talented young women (and a bit of a babe too).
I predict a very bright future for you, and best of luck with it.
XXX
Too many comments on the good, bad and the ugly.
The whole point of reading this blog is to have, perhaps, and insight to her lifestyle and her points of views about life. What or why are you folks dissecting everything which she says? It makes no sense, in such that if, in future, SPG posts other mundane topics about her, or possibily nothing at all, what does that maketh you guys of? Just sit back, relax, read her blog, and if you really need to critize, remember, what you say, is a mirror reflection of yourself, and your personality.
fuck more fuck more...u go girl!
you know, you sound all open-minded but you're absolutely not. why? because you can't accept conservative life. you can't see it. you can dance nude for all i care, waste time arguing for all i care. same time with me. you can ignore me. it's your choice. you were born with brains so pls use it. this is all the time i'm gg to waste on you now. i'm gg to get back to doing more constructive things. good luck.
You might think you're cool, smart, artistic and whatever.
But have you spare a thought for your family?
I really wonder how your parents feel deep down inside their hearts about the things you have done?
Raising a girl to your age and only to have her sleeping around with different men...how will they feel? They may seems to be ok but do you really know their true feelings?
Asians no matter what are still more conservative...
You have great writing talents and shouldnt let it to waste just like that. I wish I can write like you.
Congrats on your blog - you write well and you know what you're about. My first serious GF was from Singapore, and your writings have helped me understand her better, a lot better.
Good luck to you I say :)
be brave and continue standing up for what u believe in
Hi. I happen to be one of those Chinese guys who are supposed to hate you for your Western decadence and for humiliating our national image. But I think if there is anything that is embarrassing in this whole affair, it is not your tits, but the way our country has reacted to them.
You would be stupid in thinking that fame only comes with praise and all the little 'oohs' and 'aahs' and that you can flirt nasty comments away. Learn to accept it, just like how you are entitled to your own comments about ur sex life and blah blah, so are others. Im sick of YOUR propaganda.
Being brave = doing something you may not like but which spares your mother anguish and pain and not, putting it crudely, announcing to the whole world that you're letting your lusts take control and giving your body your mom birthed you, to be taken by countless man without due respect.If you think you're cool, you can be cooler by trying to remain cool without those 'sex' stuff. Only sex can make you popular? Not one of your entry is not about sex.You're cashing in on the conservative nature of Singapore. We've got nuff' sex books in s'pore. Do something different, and spare your mom the pain.
Don't get me wrong, It never was about the photographs.
im from melbourne so i havent read any of da articles cos it seems alot of s,poreans dat i asked about all say dat you are some slut and i end of arguing wif them about how they view things... i can onli imagine how incredibly one-sided and "bastardized" the s,pore press's view are..
don't worry cos they are jus being typical s,porean.. ive been screwed by the system b4 (da shit they call NS) cos i am different. Dont lose your individuality and stay true to yourself.
it realli doesnt matter how you do things, all dat matters is dat you do stuff da way you do cos its "you" and no one has da right to take dat away from you.. not even da singapore bloody government and press
u realli rock chick
And yes, it is IRONIC about what 'the informalist' said wasn't it? 'propaganda...'
Are you really happy with your life? I'm asking with sincere honesty. Because I think there's so much more to life. Life is not about picking petty quarrels, or who's right or wrong. I think your life would be happier if you lived in accordance to God's word and will. And what is conservative? A subjective term invented by humans because what is conservative to one is not to another.
The term 'conservative' never existed, because all the while, we had nothing to compare it with, and it was only known as the 'right' way. As the world evolved, humans change and started to blur the term 'conservative' until it's now, almost synonymous with 'wrong'.
Personally, I really liked the photo you had as a banner. Very sensual.
Frankly, I don't see what the problem is. I only wish my body was more toned so I can take nude shots myself! lol.
you are both blogger.s you both blog for attention.
but do you see whats the diff between you and xiaxue?
she seeks CLEAN attention while you are one sickening bitch who deletes most posts which flame you.please la. shut your people up who flames xiaxue. she's a TRUE blogger.
i cant help but agree with you more regarding this whole singaporeans are conservative issue. youre a great writer, i must add. i ll look forward to more good writings.
I started off wanting to say much to you, but didn't know where to begin. You remind me so much of myself 10 years ago, and so I feel for you. The greatest gift to oneself, is peace of mind. Give yourself that gift, and you'll find that you will be at your truest. I wish you happiness.
Oh, and this is for you:
http://thepoortraveller.blogspot.com/2005/06/to-hell-and-back-part-5.html
Be happy.
Xiaxue is also another whore. She started off as one, she still is, and she will always be one.
Fuck man... everyone just needs to chill out. look being a singaporean, i agree with you. That's why i chose to get the fuck out and live in another country. Some Singaporeans have alot to learn, reading some of the comments on the reports (ST), i feel that it is simply outrageous. I think, you should be allowed to potray yourself any fucking way that u like, cause after all it is YOUR life. So look, you judgemental fools, bugger off. Because everything you say is complete bollocks! You do what you think is right, don't ever doubt yourself.
Some of us mustarbate and never admit it. Some of us, love to get fucked in the arse and never admit. Some of us smoke pot, and get high but don't ever admit it. If someone has something to express, allow it. cause u know what... you are not any better.
People who call you a slut, why should you bother? They are no better, its either they don't admit who they really are, or they have just lived life in denial; never living at all.
Don't let the narrow-minded fools get you down. They resent being knocked out of their comfort zone and they view any dissenter with suspicion. Standard sheep behaviour. But they'll be the ones left behind in the end.
And I'm wondering what right Ms Keller has to slam you, when she very blatantly followed the scent of money and little red boxes in that recently concluded dating show. Those living in glass houses should not throw stones, they say.
All the best. You write beautifully.
The many narrow minded people do not understand the reasoning and factors behind your actions. So just ignore the shallow world and embrace the freedom you've obtained yourself yeah? Take care and all the best.
I've only been reading this recently since it got coverage in one of the Australian papers. My attitude is do whatever you want as long as it hurts nobody else. I'm finding it interesting reading, the inner thoughts of someone rebelling against their society's somewhat moralistic attitudes.
And I subscribe to the view, if you don't like it, then don't read it. Good on you SPG for having the courage to say and do what you want.
I don't think denise keller meant any harm .It was probaly just a comment and the super screwed up media has to hype it up-as usual.I guess this big hoo-ha about the photo u posted has really gotten out of hand and i admire u that u've managed to stay strong and move on with life!:)
But Singapore is still a pretty conservative society so...Posting such photos .....u're bound to get a big reaction.
After reading ur entries, i must say i respect u cos i feel u're very intelligent.
However,are u honouring God in how u live ur life? Im not preaching....U may have ur own set of values and own perception on how u should live ur life...But really... at the end of the day, is it right???Everything is permissible.But not everything is beneficial.U can choose ur own lifestyle...but ultimately, U may be hurting urself.
Wish u all the best!:)
I have to say that I do not agree with some of your choices in life ( I doubt if you would agree yourself if your sister does what you are doing now.) but it is your life and you are free to do whatever you like.
The other thing is you do write well (well done) and do seem precocious for your age.
Finally, it seems to me that you are looking for THE one someday. Just remember that most, I emphasise most, men have got a completely different set of criteria when he comes to a women he'd like to show off as his wife. I would think it best to remain as anonymous as you possibly can.
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And on to reason two. And this really is a big deal to me. Caucasians are better then local men in bed. But let's just not go into the tasteless details. Just leave it at the fact that Asians suck. The Chinese have small penises and the Indians are the most prone to ED -that's erectile dysfunction for the uninitiated. Carrie Bradshaw knows how important good sex is to a relationship, and so do all women, from Boston to Beijing, Sydney to Singapore.
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That includes the man who gave you your life.
I'm a blogger myself and I'm ALL for free speech. However, I do feel that perhaps all this controversy was slightly self-induced.
I say SLIGHTLY coz the gist of the blame still rests on voyeuristic, hypocritical shoulders of our supposed "moral guardians". The media (bless those devils) naturally chooses to exaggerate mountains out of molehill purely for financial reasons. It's their job and it's what they do. Controversy, scandals and news that shock the population sell.
As for the hypocrites I was talkin' about, well ... they know who they are. A generation of uptight twats, politically-correct old geezers who aren't ready for change. The primary reason they act as if they've got durians up their assess is coz they're AFRAID. Afraid that their time is up. Afraid that their way of living is changing. Afraid of losing grip, losing control to a world that's fast evolving with "foreign" things to them like iPods, teleconferencing, deep space exploration and the MTV culture.
Enuff shit, this ain't an essay. Now, the reason I said that you partially caused all this is coz somewhere deep down, you KNEW the repurcussions of havin a blog like this. Call it instinct, hindsight, sub-conscious, premonition or whatever mystic mumbo-jumbo, but the plain matter of the fact is, you knew... or should have known. Takes an idiot denser than a fog in winter not to realise the cause and effect of things. You ain't dumb. It's reflected in your writing. You're a smart, sarcastic and somewhat melodramatic young woman. So that leaves out ignorance.
So why rant? Juz take it as it is. There are some things in life you can't question nor choose. It's a two-way game. If you hate criticisms / insults, then don't write. Speak your mind and you open yourself to people from all walks of life and all levels of intelligence questioning it. Of course in the ideal world, we'd love intelligent criticisms or intellectual disagreements and we all have a nice chat and coffee afterwards ... but this is the real world. Any Tom, Dick and Ah Beng with a few coins can walk into any cyber-cafe, surf to your site and post the most CRAP-INFESTED, more holes than a sponge insult at you... and there's NOTHING you can do about it.
So cool it. If you gonna get upset by any comments / insults which doesn't satisfy your requirement of 'intelligent opposing view', then don't give them a reason to. Same with the media. They're just doing their job.
So all in all, while I agree that those people who get offended / aghast with your blog needs 2 bitch-slaps across their hypocritical ugly mug to wake them up to the reality around them, I'd juz like to say ... people usually get what they deserve and deserve what they get. If you go jogging around the city-centre of Iraq, don't cry when you get shot.
Wheee hee hee! The floodgates have opened and the unwashed monkeys have come out to play.
Isn't it wonderful that the raving simians have the opportunity to yell "WHORE" at the top of their voices while hiding behind the brick wall of Internet anonymity.
SarongPartyGirl is one of those few people who seem be absolutely honest with herself. Bravo to her, I say, for having the balls to write about her thoughts and experiences on a medium as public as this.
Hey, I hear u r in NZ, I live here and I love what you've done, keep up the good work, dun worry about the bad comments.
I love beating off to your dirty pics please post some more.
Well, as far as I am concerned, the blog is merely a place to voice your inner thoughts and a place to vent. Whilst I certainly do not agree with your viewpoints(and I do not think that I am considered a conservative Singaporean), I will accept that this is your blog and you are free to do as you want as long as you are not committing a crime. Nevertheless, as one blogger who surfed by commented, "If you wish to jog around the city centre of Iraq, do not cry when you are shot". Since you have persisted with your blog despite the hue and cry, you should expect that not everyone will be shouting for joy. The brickbats are here to stay. Are you willing to put up with that?
Hey sarong party girl.I'm glad your able to take it in your stride when everyone thinks your a slut.I don't think you are.Don't listen to what others might say.You are your own person.And you have a right to do what you want to do.I think your pictures are beautiful.In an artistic way.Most Singaporeans are not artistic so they probably can't see your pictures for what they really are.Your pictures are not porn.They're a form of art and I think you should be proud of it.I creally like the picture of you covered in blood.I'm kinda into gore & gothic art.So that picture really caught my eye.Btw,I can't really find you on suicidegirls.But i'll try again.Link me if you want to.
www.regulationhottie.blogspot.com.
Wow, pretty nasty comments up there, but somehow you people are just a bunch of hypocrites. Come on, if nudity was such an issue, the whole internet would have been banned long time ago.
For those that say, err what if my little brother stumble upon SPG's site? Hello, if your little brother manage to steer clear of the Porn and XXX site before reaching SPG's site, i would personally uninstall all of my spyware remover tools and hire your little brother to be my internet filter.
I've read the newspaper theStar article on SPG, and from the headline to the end of the fullstop of that article, i can conclude that they are just using SPG's sexual endevour to sell thier papers... get it ? sex sells.
Speaking of sex, what's wrong with that ? People have sex all the time, heck even gay and lesbian do it. Just because it's before marriage, multiple partners, no strings attached, and all the other bullshit you ppl say, it doesn't means it's morally wrong. What is morality anyway ? It's based on single fact, as long as we believe and have faith in something we do, then that is already morally correct.
SPG, for you being just 19, i am really amazed at the maturity of your thoughts and are able to express them greatly in words. Your blog is an interesting read.
u sound pretty adventurous... can i call u if my dog's in heat? =D
hah, after browsing through the comments here (esp the one above), I am increasingly inclined to believe that conservatism is synonymous with low levels of intellect.
she like what she's doing and not because she hope one day she'd appear in the newspaper. why can't we take a look at these matter in a mature way rather than insulting her for all these? and if anyone's not happy with her looks,you can't do shit about it? it's her body,not yours so just leave her alone. honestly,we all know what's singapore's like,people just need juicy gossips to talk about for a period and soon they get over it.
SPG,i'm sure things will be fine after sometime,you need not bother about people who doesn't use their brains.
Some people seriously need to get a life! Why do people just love criticising other individuals? judging them based on what they see, turning a blind eye on anything good! Why can't people stop playing the blaming game and step back. Step back and look at themselves, reflect on themselves, instead of trying to insult and judge some innocent soul like SPG.
For god sake, it's a bloody blog! SPG deserves equal amount of rights as any other bloggers out there, whether she's Singaporean, American, German, Indian or whatever - to say what she wants to say, to express what she wants to express!
What ever happen to our freedom of expression? Individuals deserve the rights to express themselves in any way they wish. Moreover, I don't think what SPG said or did - ever harmed a soul!
So why don't all of you idiots out there who simply can't resist judging other people - just GET A LIFE!
hi..reali pity u 4 being appear on e newspaper..y care bout wat ppl say..tis is UR blog..u can post watever u wan..so dun care bout wat tat idiotic xiaxue post..she then is a slut..
Aren't you also passing judgment on those who you think are "judging" spg? Distasteful as some comments may be, people have the freedom to air them as well. Or is your "freedom of expression" exclusive to those who write what you want to read?
hi spg,
first and foremost, i applaud you for being sucha brave girl.you see,i've been your fan since i dont know when because of your wonderfully written entries and the way you articulate your thoughts.
the best thing is,not to care about what they put in your comments box.because all the shitheads out there would love to put you down and see that you fall from there.you SHOULD RISE ABOVE THEM.
I really dont understand why sucha fiasco erupted just because you put up a nude pic of yourself.
you see, Singaporeans are just being too petty on these things.as if their kids are going to find out porn when they see your nude pic!!! oh puhleasse!!
what the heck about singaporeans being conservative? thats bullshit,man~! then y are they inviting topless shows into this tiny littly island????
for those shitheads out there,grow up.spg is being herself and just let her live her life.
spg,be strong and rise above them.dont let them have the priviledge to see you fall.dont even respond to the hate mails.just be yourself. many out there will always be faithful readers and will always back you up.
and oh by the way,thanks for the good entertainment.and keep having mind blowing orgasms!! take care.
and oh by the way, i absolutely love your banner photo. sad that it had to taken down. i think that picture is somewhat erotic and artistic. im wondering whats the stuff that was on your body...hrmmm...
I like SPGs they provide good service. I was once an out of luck western male down on my confidence who couldn't get a woman. Then I was sent to South East Asia to work. SPGs helped me get out of my rut and get my confidence back. With my new found self esteem given to me by SPGs I was confident enough to meet my wife.
Thank You SPGs you rock
Whoever says they support u and the fact that Singapore sucks dick just because they are not liberated enough are idiots. If u don't like Singapore and its conservative ways, then just get the f out. No one is forcing u to stay. The country gives u everything u every need, and makes u the girl u are today, on the brink of entering uni, and u criticise it. Just go to some other countries and be a second class citizen there, what for stay in singapore?
let them say..do what is right. whatever it is, there are always people on your side. I would just ask you to be strong and ignore these people who are so naive and un-open.
let the criticism be the savory sauce to complete the meal.all the best
I'm a Singaporean but I'm a second class citizen here too... *rme*
"My fingers are freezing off and I can barely type, so I'll just leave it off as that."
Stick them in your cunt where it's always warm from all the action?
never really agree with your views and values as a SG chena man, but that's for another day. for what it's worth, i have to give it to u. you go girl.
Hey SPG,
Love your unihibited style of blogging. It's very intrigueing and engaging, not to mention it presents a very interesting perspective on life. Keep at it even though conservatives out there are out kicking up a ruckus. Don't they have something more important to do like stay employed ?
PS: Funny how the sillier people think that there's only one way to live life - their way. Keep living life your way. Morals are afterall man made. Uniformity is for the insecure and the intellectually challenged.
where have all the moral integrity gone to?
you wouldn't want your kids to be flashing her tits ard,thinking that its perfectly fine yes.
like that whoever said,we do have different perceptions.
not that i am saying it's wrong to do smth like that,
but,moral integrity?
would you like to reconsider that word?
you've got thousands of taggers repraoching you about whatever you have done.
but,perhaps your way of expressing yourself should be a little more subtle.afterall singaporeans are still bounded by traditions.
well, people whom have contributed much criticism here are just plain boneheads with nothing better to do.
since u people diss her so much, then close this page, read a book, watch a show, GET A LIFE.
spending time reading someone elses blog THEN spending more time to think of ways to put her down... have u people nothing better to do???
seriously, at least i can say i've seen and spoken to her, and perhaps is can be considered a fleeting friend of hers. which by now she might have forgotten. *^^*
moral values are defined by people. therefore people can change moral values. simple as that. you as a person can try as much as u want to uphold watever values in concern, but u cannot make others follow suit.
and yes, i agree with SPG, wats the big deal abt boobs???? you have'em, i have'em.
pls dimwits, look at it from an artistic point of view. what has she done that has aniting to do with porn??? there are religious nudist all over the world and no one seem to say aniting abt it. also, people, just admit it. by the age of 18, most people would have been exposed to pornography. wats this in comparism to that.
btw, people, if u wanna leave nasty comments. at least have the courage to put down ur name and email. or else, u'll just look even more pathetic.
hey.. i hope i write as beautiful as u..=) its u blog.. a place where u write wad u wans.. y shld u let anyone interfering wad u write.. uve got guts n courage to do tat.. i am proud of u too..=)
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
too much trouble to register
yo!!!can u like do a porn movie where 4 black guy's do you
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
There is a difference between being uninhibited in your writing (which is as you well know, good)and uninhibited in your actions.
I think the controvesy is not so much the nude pic as it is about your sleeping around.
In every society (western and asian), no one would like to be a slut; which essentially you happily agree you are.
And by saying the things you do in your blog, you do realise that you have put down your very own father and brother?
They are the Chinese men you so despise.
I like the way you write, it's very in-your-face. Think I used to be like that when I was younger, and have since become more mellow. I am not an SPG, but I am somewhat more aligned with non chinese guys.
Anyway, I have this to say to people who come here to view your blog so that they can put judgmental comments -- They have really low self esteem to do that. Looking at your photos and criticizing them and making a personal attack/calling names... just shows how low life they are. In other words, they prey on others to feel good about themselves. There are waaaay too many of these people in this world.
Leave them be.
Though I may not agree with everything you say, at least you've got a mind of your own and I say welcome to the club of people with their own real opinions. Those that prey on others to make themselves feel better and those that are led by the nose by the govt like a dog should be put down. In the SPCA. But I doubt the SPCA can handle so many beasts.
hey girl, I have been reading your blog since a year ago and have found it to be both honest, refreshing and entertaining. Do continue to write as you did, cuz even before this whole saga, you had loyal readers (like me) who checked in almost everyday to read about your adventures with Mr Big, Martine and the g-spot (to name a few).
People believe what they want to believe, and there will always be the ones who choose to sling mud on you. So stay strong ok? =)
Make no mistake. The horses' ones are real big.
I think you're a disgrace to the blogging society at large. What do you hope to achieve by posting yourself nude on the Internet, other than to enjoy the attention you get from all the controversy?
What do you hope to achieve by posting your sexual escapades on your blog... other than once again bathing in all the limelight?
It's one thing to crave attention, but it's another thing to stoop so low to get it. If your life is all about nudity and sex, then you not only lead a simplistic but also sad life.
SPG oh la la
You're sooooooooooo HOT and I feel SOOOOOOOOOO connected to you.
What say you come over to my place and I'll give you a bit of spanking!!!! And of course, I'll throw in a bit of arty farty opinions of mine!!!!
YEAH BABY!!!!!
Despite the controvesy people have created for you, I have to say I like you style of writing. At least you DARE. Many of those making so much noises at you don't even dare to identify themselves. Those who make such rude and hypocritical comments about you are just those stupid people who looks at porn behind their computer screen and tells everyone how disgusted nude pics are. Simply stupid. If anyone were to say you put us Singaporeans to shame, I think those idiots who tried to uphold their "values" are the ones putting Singaporeans to shame.
And for those who said you are insulting all Chinese men by going only for white guys, well, must a chinese girl only choose a chinese man? Well, they are the ones with the "screwed up" values. And this is coming from a Chinese Man.
And those who said you are ugly, well, can't blame them. They are too used to photoshop. And they don't understand inner beauty, the same as how they don't understand you.
And those who accused you of using this opportunity to get famous are simply jealous. They can't write as well as you and probably still lives in the Qing Dynasty.
My girlfriend and I enjoy reading you blog. We admire your straightforward and honest style of writing. Do ignore those brainless people. Keep up the good work.
Cheers :)
Mr Andy, our SPG considers your prick too small for her taste.
I think you're just using her site's popularity to link to yours and show us what a lovely couple you and your wife are.
I don't quite get the blogger thing but thought I'd see what the fuss over your photo was about. Unfortunately it's not there.
From what I understand you're 19, very good looking, and have a 35 year old's understanding of life. Wish I had the opportunity to meet you. Whatever it is you're doing that's causing the fuss keep it up. Life's short.
best regards,
Irv Wilson
Phoenix, AZ USA
My comments might come late. But what I have to say is that it is more artistic than pornography. I guess Singaporeans are too narrow minded rather than conservative, even in choice of their language. They can't seperate naked, porn and nude. naked and porn tends to have the essence of sexual stimulating effect and fulfilment of sexual fetishes. Posing nude is more sensous, more constructive in composition and often wants the viewer to appreciate the beauty of human body forms. Forgive those rude Singaporeans. It takes a dirty mind to think it's dirty. I must say you are an expressive persona and unhibited in showing own persona. I have no comments on your lifestyle because each individual has his/her own path to take. We all have no rights to judge one another.
testing maturity level........
stupid.. it's just hot and sellable articles no one said this blog was bad.. in fact if this gal wanna have fun i will b glad to b one toy or camera for her..
SPG, could you please fix the template for the comments? Add more margin/space between comments, it's kinda hard to read as it is now.
Thank you :).
Em: You write well, no doubts about it. Yet, I think your blog is just another attempt to create justifications for your lifestyle. You are like everyone else; trying to find meaning in our individual screwed up lives. Good to know you love sex, but do resign yourself to the fact that you have made yourself sound like a frustrated nymphomaniac instead of a love goddess. So you are not really different actually, you are just a walking advertisement for sex.
maybe she is, maybe she isn't..
but the million dollar question is:
Why should anybody else care?
If I may, I would like to borrow a local colloquailism:
KAPO
that's the problem with S'poreans.
Sort out your own sorry lives first.
mad props and kudos to you for trying to express yourself and being unapologetic in doing so.
singaporeans need to learn the beauty of the 'to each their own' concept.
i say, forget all the negativity you're getting. you're doing things the way you wanna, so more power to you, sister!
you're smart, opinionated, and you write well, unlike a lot of the anonymous posters with rude, mindless comments.
i love how you're kicking people out of their little comfort zones.
respect!
Big friggin deal what SPG does... you should see what other so called "conservative virginal" Singapore girls are up to in US... in comparison SPG is a naive school girl!!!!
As for "clean " Xiaxue shes one of the worse hypocritical whores!!!!
If you get sick of that pseudo conservative fucked up society you live in, you can always leave. You are just too smart to be living there. Singaporeans can be so full of SHIT. The same people who are getting their panties in a tight twist over your pictures are probably the same assholes who wont bat an eyelid over Singaporean men visiting Batam for sex with a minor, visiting Geylang/Desker Rd and such.. I dont see Singaporeans getting all fired up over issues like that. Why? Because they cant see it? Its behind closed doors?
For all the people slinging mud at you, remember that there are way more who support you ~ all the way from Canada too~! An Iranian political activist whose life is in danger (over his blog) said "Once you start practicing self censorship, you are essentially killing yourself"
We are all attention whores, one way or another. You'd be a Big liar and a pretty stupid one if you deny that fact. Its just part of who we are. Embrace it. Stop pointing fingers like you're any better.
SPG> Keep your head up!
hello, being a young woman of malaysian chinese descent (therefore asian), i do have reservations about what u do, and ur condemnation of local men in general (should have expected a backlash from angry local men, there :D). on the other hand, i know where u are coming from. and i agree with u on some points. to go into great lengths here would be futile. suffice to say, local men do have plenty of their own shortcomings, as every other type of man in the world. HOWEVER, i really do not see the point of the entire brouhaha... i think the whole situation has been blown completely out of proportion. and for anyone who insulted your parents, i think they go too far. 'let the person who has never sinned throw the first stone.' would they recognise where THAT came from? it is not for other people to dictate your lifestyle. because i'm sure there are many young, single, unmarried (or married!) women who screws around and films themselves in the act. the only difference is that their parents know nothing of it, and they do not PUBLICLY blog about it. and i am fairly certain u are not the only SPG around in the whole of asia. so: what do i call it? HYPOCRISY. and in my opinion, that is the ultimate sin. what's wrong with the human body? when man and woman was first created, they walked naked in the garden of eden. it is only after they learnt shame that they covered themselves. there are worse people out there... what about incestuous rapists???!!! are they making a big deal out of it? and for a country famous for their geylang street, i wonder why a young woman posing nude (as in the models of artisans of old) in an artsy black-and-white photo should cause such a stir. it seriously boggles my mind. add to the fact that she would make a wonderful, refreshing writer..... i say we leave her with her choices. i'm sure SPG is not the only asian woman around who prefers white men. i see nothing wrong with that. it's just a preference. just as her sex life is her preference as well. and her choice to blog about it. for crying out loud... SPG already has adult connotations... she's not exactly describing the sexual act in exquisite detail! besides, there are plenty of XXX-sites out there that can do way more damage than a woman posing nude in a blurry monochrome photo!! how more superficial can the general public get? leave her choices as that-choices. then learn to live and let live.
I genuinely appreciate your writing for what it is...good, solid, with great vocab and all. I don't think there's anything wrong with what you write...it's honest afterall.
I see most of the comments left here are rather "cheap" trash and non articulate, leave the girl alone. have you people heard of the freedom of expression? There is a wide fucking difference between "Naked and the Nude". I have to agree on what party Girl has to say about most of YOU not knowing the values of art and its meanings. there is fucking reason why they built the Esplanade, its for you oblivious bastards to try to learn the basics of art and appreciate it. Why leave comments and leave your name anonymous? whats the point? Scared of a lash back? Well, here I am, my name is Gavin Koh. In my personal opinion, I think this girl here is gutsy and liberal, not like you conservative goody-two-fucking-shoes breed. Give her a break, if her views offend you, go read another blog, its not like she is forcing you to read her blog. Singaporeans seriously need to GROW up! Many of you people are just lip servers, lip service is simple, its just the movement of the upper and lower movement of your lips. GIVE THIS GIRL A BREAK FOR GOODNESS SAKE.
Gavin Koh
www.iamgavin.blogspot.com
I'm a Roman Catholic, and my religion dictates a certain degree of sexual oppression [no sex before marriage, no dating before reaching the age of reasonable marriage, etc.]. On that note, despite my religion, I applaud you for having the courage to voice your opinions and experiences on such a large stage. I live in Toronto, and today is the Gay Pride Parade, which shows you just how sexually and ethnically diverse Canada [or at least Toronto] is.
However, you obviously have to realize that not all people are so accepting, especially in Singapore and other Asian countries. It will be impossible for you to both voice your true opinions and live without criticism.
You alone know what is the right thing to do.
you can't just say millions of man are sexually useless and think they will accept it gladly.
If she's as intelligent as her writing shows, she should know it.
Myself being a white male I can only feel thankful though =)
If, as a proud postmodern bacchante, you're trying to reclaim the term from its less than savoury connotations, don't get pissy when others choose to address you by, well, that term you've so defiantly embraced.
Slut.
All these defensive posts about your much-maligned character. It's the internets, deario. If you can write want you want, then everyone can write what they want. You were expecting to loosen up those oh-so-retrogade Singaporean social mores without first getting a little fire-and-brimstone from the churchgoing set, the soccer mom set, the sexually repressed, pitifully endowed and Oedipedally-complex'd Asian(alert: NotWhite!)male set?
Gee.
(And btw, whingeing about unfair representation in the media is like whingeing about the hot sun being hot on a hot July day. Causing sunburns is what the sun does. Distorting the truth is what the media does. It's nothing personal. Methinks the lady doth protest too much.)
Enough of all these bullshit about maintaing "moral integrity" and Christian values already. You people make me sick. You'd think that when the end of the world is here, Heaven will be occupied by Singaporeans first. Fuck off.
And all you chinks can go shove cucumbers up your arses-- don't blame SPG if she doesn't like your dick sizes-- it's your bad genes.
Still, what makes you think I'd put my white dick into this young slut anyway? God knows what crap she's picked up.
Thank God I wasn't born Singaporean and Asian.
U haf gd command of the language n continue to write becos i really like ur posts! About the controversy surrounding those nude pictures recently, i think that its juz becos sg is too conservative in the sense that we cant even tok about boobs? lol. see western european countries? european women can go out w/o wearing bras becos they find it a bother to. It juz reflects how narrow-minded singaporeans actually are.
I dun think u haf committed any mistakes by posting those nudes pictures of urself and juz continue to be urself ya?
Rock on gal~
the internet is a free world and people are entitled to their own opinions. let them all buzz by you like flies in your ear. tho irritating but at least you know they are pests.
i'm ashamed to be a singaporean after all that was said and done in the media and the public.
i love how you love yourself and am not afraid to show it.
all the best!
I think it's ridiculous that society can criticize and tear you up for degrading the image of Singapore when we have thousands of real whores on the streets on Joo Chiat and other likes.
If art can be considered porn, then you should know what sort of society we live in. The people who look at your photos and think its dirty and cheap are really the ones with the dirty and cheap mind, for miscontruing art for dirt.
In my virginal, 17-year-old opinion, we live in a country where society is in serious sexual denial.
I have only 1 thing to say: JUDGE AND YOU WILL BE JUDGED.
What a sad, sad, sad, country you live in. No wonder there are no new kids, few marriages and busses full of young raving dykes, the tight pusssied little girls, all dressing for one another, tshe little girls who call the police if you atatempt to look at their knickers covering their puny bumbs, hardly hidden by a pelmet of a skirt. And the little undeveloped boys, so small they wear girlies clothes, the little boys so feminine, the boys only boys because they have got a bit of useless skin hanging between their puny legs.
SPG girl, you have shocked them all, and good luck to you. Keep writing that BLOG. Your life is your own do what yolu will shall be the whole of the law.
anonymous
Since you admire the Causcians so much(and perhapes think you are one), I think it is your destiny to migrate to the Land of White Hairy Monkeys and have a fark fest at every street corner all day long! Perhapes you should charge $, although it is your preoccupation with the size of their dicks, one has to earn a living?
Be strong gentile one..even tho we're strangers sometimes our plight make us companions.
Takes all sorts to make the world go round, if only we learn to except each other for our faults perhaps the world would be a kinder place.
Born with the right to exercise one's choice, some have chosen to criticize albeit nonconstructively.
But those who understand and appreciate remain silent..but we're not quiet.
You'll be in my good wishes and may you seek what you're looking for.
We should all be thankful for what we have and not ridicule others for what we don't...lest we forget how fragile we are.
- boy from Rotorua
Firstly I'd like to say that I've never been a blog enthusiast. I don't have a blog and I don't read blogs but the recent controversy on the SPG blog has left me rather...bewildered.
Singaporeans are truly sad, sorry cases I tell you. I have to admit that I too am ashamed to be one. If we have first world infastructures, why do we have to conform to third world mindsets? SPG speaks her mind and that is clarity. And in this case, to free from obscurity and easy to understand is a healthy state of mind. The media and the masses malign her and for a 19 year old, she has handled
the "repercussions" very well. Believe me, there will be more like her in the future. She will be an example for girls who believe in freedom of speech.
If you ask me, SPG should do what she wants to do or say what she wants to say. At the end of the day, It's what she thinks that matters most.
Love & peace.
There is only ONE reason for wat u did, U ARE TRYING TO GET ATTRACTION ...
U know yourself that u dun have any condition to attract others (eg: cos u r ugly ...), then u choose to show ur nude pic as the only way ...
Displaced, I am juz curious. You would be proud if your daugther turns out to be a cheap fuck?
wow. now i know what my MSIAN friends mean about KIASUISM......get a life. Dont you guys have some casinos to build or something?
Hi. It's Dwayne from Florida. Firstly I would like to say I love your writing. Some of the arguments were so beautifully laid out it's really a joy to read. But still there are many things I do not agree with of course.
Firstly I could not see how an intelligent girl like yourself can be so delusional. I've seen several of your photos and if you regard yourself as gorgeous you are simply delusional. It's a thin line between delusional and confident I suppose. And even the best of beings fall into this trap sometimes.
Secondly, I admire your courage of daring to love...anyone whom you deem fit. But it seems to me you are in fact a racist to your own race?! You keep emphasizing that you have the right to choose other skin colours but you did emphasize and stressed the inferiority of you own skin colour...tell me if this doesn't fall into the category of racism. I'm also disappointed that your stance seemed to have weaken a little due to all the media pressure. I don't see any "I love foreign men and hate local men" anymore, I see more "I have the right to love anyone, even if they are foreign."
If incest were permissible and a father was denied sex by her own daughter by virtue of the size of his penis, ah that sucks.
Never heard of you until the bighoohah about your blog came up. I took a look and thought, it really isn't a big deal. I don't see the point of dissing your body or your face or whatever. It would only work if you cared what people think and since you don't, it's a waste of time.
You write really well and it's been fun reading your blog. :)
Dwayne, you are right as well as wrong. A Sarong Party Gal is not necessarily a rascist she juz like to fuck white men with abandon for free. If she charges $ and doesnt fuck chinese, then she is a rascist. I hope that helps.
You're just sickening and ugly. Face it!
I think you represent many of the females out there who dare not show their true personality because of the suffocated society we live in currently.
Art is an expression of oneself. I think your pictures are beautiful. Do continue to keep the faith and stay true to yourself.
Hey SPG. :)
Im a 15 yr old writer here. I really must comment that those who are writing negatively are absolutely people with no life at all.
Do whatever you want as long as you're comfortable. It's your life. and don't give a fucking damn about those aunties and uncles out there.
Seriously enjoy reading your Blog. I feel abit pissed at the fact that the ST has to interfere your life like that. :|
Be Confident and Stay Your Beautiful Self as long as u can sustain it.
To each his own.
Since she herself call herself a slut, I don't see what is wrong with others calling her the same thing.
So, people, stop scolding the ones that address her as 'slut'. Coz she is one, she knows it, and she loves it.
I personally do not see what is wrong with the photos she posted, yes. They are if I may say, artistic rather than explicit. The only thing is that, I don't really think the reason for this whole issue is purely due to the pics. It's about the life style and things she does. If anyone were to ask her, she will have to admit that the photos that she usually takes are far from being artistic. I do love the female form, and find nudity sexy and artistic when done correctly. But I cannot find any artistic value in alot of the things she has done and pics she has taken.Though so, I must say it was very wise of her to not put up the 'low class' ones on her blog. It gave her a better stand and a cause she CAN argue for.
But, hiding what she did does not mean she did not do it.
In anycase, I do not think sleeping around is particularly wrong, provided that all parties know what they are in for. The angry posts mainly only for the purpose of scolding her, are probably from her ex lovers who turned sour. It is apparent that it was not made clear to them the situation while they were together. Thus, I do not think it's a fair fight.
She has the right to live her own life, and do what she wants so long that she does not bring harm or hurt other people. But the fact that she knows it will hurt other parties, tries to hide certain facts from them, yet still continues with what she does, she does not seem to me to be as straight forward and real as she tries to portray herself to be.
I can only feel sorry for the people around her, those who care for her and those whom once cared. It's sad to feel like they have been betrayed just because she didn't make it clear to them.
hi, i don't really read peoples' blogs actually but yours has sparked my interest. your way with words and style of ranting really reminds me of this army friend of mine who was gay. i admired him for his knowledge and skill with the pen. anyway, i think singapore is not ready for complete personal liberism yet. we are still torn between the intellectual freedom of western ideals and social conservatism of eastern culture. we want both but cannot have our cake and eat it. an example is how we crave for less censorship in movies etc yet cringe and cry foul when couples display public affection or people like you pose nude. bottomline is because the latter is someone you know or just a singaporean. if its an ang moh doing it, we will go "they are like that, its fine" and we sort of approve. people usually reject/fear/abmonish what they do not understand. they do not understand what your intentions and lash out at your actions. your avant garde way of proclaiming "this is my life, and i do as hell as i please" will not sit well with prudish singaporeans and pushing the envelope will on earn you more irate fanmail. i have come to realise that people really have different ways of lives and thinking and should have to freedom to do as they please, as long as noone gets hurt. so you should too, but you must realise that just as you have the right to say as you please also means others have a right to say as they please. you have to decide that the more you leave your life to public scrutiny (via blog) the more people will read it (like me) and have opinions. celebreties want fame and privacy at the same time which is impossible in this day and age. so you should realise that.
best of luck to you and may you find your resolution soon.
Hi SPG.
I enjoy reading your blog very much. i like your thoughts and you articulate them very well. Keep it up. Cheers.
Hey girl, take it as a form of publicity for you by the media,you don't lose anything!
First up,I personally feel that you have very good writing ability.You have convey a very important message across and that's Singapore is very conservative. Nudity to me is nothing unless you see it with a "Dirty Mind"!
There are top supermodels out there whom are not "Pretty" who poses nude for the camera and yet nobody says that these models are sluts. I do not know you in person so I won't command whether if you are pretty or not,but to me,a woman who has confidence and charisma has already won half the battle;at the very least I think you are charismatic. I admire woman who speaks up their mind and not acting innocent or having hypocricy. But you must always remember this, you must be resposible for everything that you do and that's including what you have written in your blog;like what MM Lee had said before:"When there is no responsibility,there's is no ownership."
Overall, I think you have already been a very brave girl who have the courage to face these kinds of unnecessary pressure from ignorant idiots out there who actually commented that you are a slut! Perhaps these people have nobody to praise them or perhaps out of "so call jealousy" because your blog receive so much controvesy...
Anyway just don't even blink your eyes and bother these kind of nonsence. Lastly keep up the good writng skills.
i guess u dun masturbate cos ur fingers r d wrong color & size. but then u dun nd 2, seeing how easily men can get a free fuck from u. u muz hv a big hole by now!
The ones who have nothing constructive to say but direct insults should really check up on the true definition of 'juvenile'.
Singaporeans conservative? I wonder if that is a joke.
Give this lady a break, she was only doing what she does best, expressing herself. Why slam her nudity? Why call her a whore? Just because she worships her own body and intellect? What about OTHER SINGAPOREANS who flirt shamelessly at clubs and pubs? What about OTHER BIKINI CLAD WOMEN who flaunt their bodies at every other Sentosa beach party? Or what about OTHER BLOGGERS who posts their pictures kissing their men or women? If the media enjoys exposing blogs with sexuality contents, I suppose they should hire someone to sit in front of the computer just for the sake of 'blog-hopping' in order to acquire cheap news like this.
Its not sensational. Its ridiculous.
Do not be too easy when it comes to judging people, you might not even notice your own flaws. Worse, you do not even want to regard your own shortcomings.
By the way SPG, an artist will never be understood.
Good day.
VOLTAIRE said: I may not agree with what you say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it.
So my dedication to SPG&AllYoungOnes:
Restoring Wings of Freedom
Winging high above the rambutan tree
It's a world of freedom quite carefree
You sing your song to no applauding awe-dience
I thank thee for thy wake-up calls, with patience.
I wish I can join you in your escapade
Across streams and grass covered plains
At one among your feathered friends
While humans toil, restless and unseeing,to make amends?
I woke one morn and found you helpless
With one left wing bleeding
Did a naughty boy hurt you
With a flying pebble from an elastic sling?
I nursed the wound with lotion and love
And soon rested, you wing your way
To open sky and green fields
Tasting sunshine and freedom again
Teenagers sometimes are like wounded birds
They stumble, and fall, suffer emotional hurts
Dear adults, remember thou art once also a wounded bird
Can you feel thy son's or daughter's hurt?
YLChong
PS: Re-inspired by some teenager somewhere who stumbled maybe, hurt her knees perhaps, I'd like to dedicate this poem to the YoungOnes everywhere to tell them on the many Mis'haps they may encounter, mayhaps a sharing like this can give thee wings to that freedom once more!
can you post your "famous" pic up again? cause i cant find it anywhere
There will always be people who will stand behind you. You represent a lifestyle different from most I know but I am sure you will shine no matter what you do. All the best and don't stop whatever that you are doing.
chu
singapore men really suck and stupid . They do not know what to do on bed.
cheryl
Don't be too affected with what people said.I really think you are one great writer that express yourself so true.Just one blog creates such a big hoo-ha lol.Singaporeans..I'm one too but just can't stand all those immatured & conservative minds sometimes.Just be yourself,at least you'll not regret once in a lifetime you did somethin you want.However do take good care of yourself.Good Luck To Ya =)
I've been following your blog for quite awhile now. Even before you posted your pic up. And quite frankly, I think people are stupid to make such a big deal out of one picture.
And by the way, I believe you have handled the situation very maturely. I probably wouldn't have done the same. Have a nice life.
kia ora e hoa ma...
like your blog, liked your pics, dislike singapore media for blowing a couple of arty pics into something 'so big'... makes me think that it is run by a 'local male with all the "short comings" you have mentioned previously... a BIG story to compensate for small mind etc...
and since when has narcissistic been just a dirty word? (checked dictionary.com for meanings?!) Narcissistic is a prerequisite for getting a MediaCorp or MTV role!!
thought the Denise thing was just more media hype... biggish column advertisements reading "denise disses SPG" and the denise 250+ word article has 2 words and 'and' about SPG. And she was definitely looking pretty desperately for answers to the questions she faced on the final 'eye for a guy'! But that was also most likely scripted and/or edited by a 'small minded' local male...
enjoy your life and choices... you seem to be making your choices based on more than enough info and free thought and that is a lot more honest than a lot of 'media' locals, SPG's and ex-pat's i know...
1) There is nothing wrong posing in nude. Especially when it's done quite professionally.
2) There is nothing wrong in engaging casual sex (group sex, lesbian, white, black, hispanics, or even Asians!), although I would regard animal sex as abit over the edge. Sex is fun and should be.
There is nothing wrong in not beliving in monogamy. Since humans are probably not genetically coded to be monogamous. Very few species mate for life.
3) It's not wrong for you saying and doing whatever you want because that's your perogative. But I would suspect you'll find this path pretty senseless later in life.
Therefore the conclusion is there is nothing wrong in saying you prefer other races (you mentioned white, blacks, hispanics) other than your own race.
But we as highly intellectual beings like yourself have the right to defend ourselves just like what any other races will do. And I would like to say all races are equal, all homosapiens are created equal. Asians men have good quality as well (our nation's divorce rates are much lower than western countries). For someone who thinks she is too good for her own race is pathetic and terribly lacking in self confidence.
We Asians have some unique qualities in us which others learned from (Although lacking the ability to fuck 5 hours and come 10 times is not one of them). But is that the most important thing in life??! How many hours a day do you want to spend fucking your mate? Communication and sharing other life experiences is part of an enjoyable experience as well.
When you eventually decide to settle down, maybe have kids (who knows, mentality changes every minute), you'll probably let out a giggle when you think back at all your orgies and swinging parties. They'll probably wouldn't make any sense to you then.
Remember Anabelle Chong, a few years later, did heave a sign of regret after she did those stuff.
Ashamed of S'poreans and their media. Is this what journalism has degraded into?
that's all I want to say.
Ignore those uncles and aunties who pass comment.
Their archaic values will die out with them.
Cheers.
Dwayne: how can someone regret doing something very enjoyable?
It's akin to someone saying how he regrets going to Disneyland 5 years ago.
Doesn't make sense.
Hi there, I am a reader, your writing is okay, not very good though as many people claimed. Hope your decent blog does not turn in xiaxueish kind of flaming and insulting.
Anyway, this whole thing is a PASSING FACADE. Meaningless, I say. I don't even know why I typed here, except to tell all of you, it is meaningless. Fame is temporary, and it will be lost.
So bask in this limelight while you still can (whether you want to or not), because people are going to forget about it soon. Cheers.
hi im my name is mr.smith
i love asian women,im a white men living in new york nowaday's it's so difficult to get a girl to fuck, everything is money,but asian girl's are different ,they love sucking my cock ,i really cant believe ,that asian women are so easy to be fuck,just need to wear branded clothing and act cool,just like in the movies,or sometimes try to act a little weird asian girl really go for it,you can fuck the whole singapore woman's if your are white ,couse what can i say white in the state are nothing compare to the black dick's,but in singapore white is king of the dick,i love you asia ,spg please let all the asian men know the white cock rule's in asia
i'll bet you mother can get enuf of your dad's dick,do you think what im thinking ,maybe you mother is having affair all this while to satisfy her sex desire. ,couse as you say chinese dick are smaller compare to white dick,i cant imagine your mother getting fucked in the arse by a white guy!!!wow sound orgy huh!!
Regards
Mr Sak Mai Kok
singaporean
hi.
my name's kairin.
i have a blog too. and that's it. its a place that's meant to be my personal space.
and i think you made your personal space the way you feel it should.
and besides i realized reading your blog somehow adds to my intelligence. can you imagine how brain numbing being in NS can be?
and worse... its a whole shitload of a place where your thoughts and sexuality is beind deprived of the air it needs to breath to stay alive.
than again. i'm just happy to say find that your blog still exists.
please keep writing.
the world needs more heroines like you. (even if THE COUNTRY can't accept you, the rest of the intelligent world will)
SPG, dun fret. your blog entries are like a breath of fresh air!
ignore the ignoramuses. they should shove it where the sun don't shine!
keep up the great blogging!
asian so taboo,they just love our redneck white cock,white cock definetly taste better then yall chingz little cock,i luv fucking chingz and sucking their tit's
detroit,usa
white cock
asian girl luv's white cock ,couse the almost cum everytime,my white cock penetrate your lovely asian pussy,compare with asian men i think generally singaporean men,they can't even make their partner cum ,eventhou their tried hard couse they lack's of the macarenna skill's if you know what im saying ,white cock is bigger and better then asian's cock
white power
george of the jungle
You are unique in your character. seriously, i think you have set your own ideals, and should follow by it. What you are doing is not,"nude blogger" or exhibitionist or what-ever. Prehaps they never heard of artistic nudity, thats what make them so shallow. They just think of you as flaunting your body. in my opinion, i feel that sph shouldn't have flared up the matter in public. by doing that, they are just selfish. they only think of articles to put in, but don't give a thought about your feelings, your passion for art. this is why some singaporeans are so f*cked up. Well i believe you are better than us in a way. daring to step out into a whole new level. For that i salute you. Good luck in future endeavours
well dun be unfazed by all de negative comments from those supposed puritans.everyone needs a freedom of expression,and i believe that it's a step in the right direction for singapore society even if it can be a little hard to take
i am a little differ from those sterotypes...to SPG...As long as u know what u r doing and trying to achieve... pls go ahead... dun get discouraged by those that thinks lowly of u...
We are living in the world of democracy... ! My Goodness!
psst... u do look gd
Being around with the singapore men made me sick. I had mostly gone out with Caucasian men or white men when I got to college. I became a lot more attracted to White men. One thing I can’t stand those Singapore men is they are not independent and it is like going out with a kid. Another thing is they are too short! Apparently, white men are more attractive . Also, all my white bfs do housework and they know how to cook. awwww.....:)
So yeah, I do understand what u mean BY 'no longer dating singapore men'!
**Cheryl**
SPG girl, I like your style; the guts, the photos the attacking attitude towards those weak singaporsean cunts who cannot run a reasonabally balancfed life, even if they found it. This poor little Island has sits problems, every move you make is hidebound by some fucking proceedure. Very soon the3 Governments doctors are going to measure the puny tiny cocks of the newly born. If they do not measure up to the latest statistic, the poor little bastards will have their undeveloped set of three chopped off in the style of the ancient royal eunuchs of old china.
Singapore is attempting to adopt first world standards with outmoded third world sexual values and ideas. This Island cannot have both,people have got to choose.
So SPG, you and your friends have a lot of work to do.
The poor little virgins and the picks who are complaining about your actions, should take a look at themselves, before insulting your intelligence.
Will there be a SPG "Homevideo" to download soon?
hey i'm just one of the many people who dropped by at your blog. personally i feel that it is not right of you to post your nude photos on your blog. I believe that your side of argument stands on the point that its okay to post them since singapore is trying to walk out of what they call being too "traditional" and not open enough. true. but that is not the way to show our openness and whatever you call it. by posting porn items on your blog, have you ever thought that people are not viewing it as an art piece, instead it might arouse someone's sexual desire? if you think its STILL OKAY, then i would urge you to rethink. everyone has parents, including you. have you ever SPARE a thought for your own parents when you posted your nude photos? have you spare a thought for OTHER people's parents?
if you're still thinking that you're helping singaporeans change the image of being "traditional", you're very wrong. indeed, blog is your personal online diary that you can freely write your thoughts and all that. but think again, would normal people shoot their nude photos and post them on their blog? what's the whole purpose? to show off? to ask for comments? to show how OPEN you're?
i'm not trying to be mean here cos this issue is obviously none of my business and i believe you're really affected by it. but i hope you really understand, and try to view things from other people's opinions. cos afterall you don't live by yourself, you live with a whole lot of people with clashing opinions and ideas from you. i wld sasy i support you, but not your views. cos i know its not easy. &take care.
look at all the comments above.
most are commenting on how good/bad you look in those photos i believe. is that what you really want?
At present I’m engaged in a relentless debate with myself, am I besotted with her firm and exotic body or enchanted by her wit and vicious intellect? What a mindfield!
This is a question to which I intend to devote a great deal of time in the coming days.
INCIDENTAL THOUGHTS
Oscar Wilde was the consummate dandy, camp by today’s vocabulary. His wit, flamboyance and creative genius were widely renowned. However, as Wilde finally confronted the homosexual feelings that had gripped him since his school days, his private life flew increasingly in the face of the decidedly rigid social conventions of late Victorian society. This was to lead him into a passionate and stormy relationship which would consume and ultimately destroy him and his family.
NOTE TO SELF: she said, “ enjoyment is transient, pleasure is ephemeral”
NOTE TO SELF: I responded “every man dies, but not every man lives”
Excuse my intellectual drifting (I use the word “intellectual” generously); I’m attempting to make a connection between a colourful private life and the role which it plays in informing the work of an artist. Would we be as interested in the writings of Sylvia Plath or the paintings of Frida Kahlo if their lives weren’t so colourful? Would their work suffer as a result of a dull life?
NOTE TO SELF: Man Ray often proclaimed, “I have no questions only answers” to which Marcel Duchamp responded, “I have no answers only questions”
Miguel.
Why all that fuss for a tit????
Sarongpartygirl did nothing but expressing herself in an online journal.
If you don't like it, don't read it!
You go, Girl !!!
Would normal people shoot their nude photos and post them on their blog?
yes It is perfectly normal to pose nude pictures and post them on their blogs.
Frankly I dont think there should be an issue.
I wont impose my moral judgements on SGP cos i dont have the right nor do i think there is a need to do so. Do as you wish .GO Girl!
P.S :Dont be manipulated by the mass media.
Hi.
To me there is a difference between having sex and making love.
You've had sex for so many times but how many times are there when you felt you were truly making love and not just having sex?
Think about it.
when international models shoot semi-nude or nude photos, ppl say it's art. when "commoners" do it, u sae it's linked to porn? WTH? make sense, c'mon.
com'on pple, this isn't abt her nude pics at all. it's abt a singaporean chinese gal who thinks she's too good for her own race.
Why does she find the whites great in bed?
Simple, because even before she was born, these people already had shagged many times over. In other words, they're old hands at sex.
I suspect the younger ones find her too distasteful for them.
For the old ones, it helps boost their egos.
this is one of most ridiculous things i've heard on the news. i think the only thing that comes close is the fucking stupid parents wanting a school renovated because a teacher was gay.
i think most singaporeans don't want to admit that such a thing as sex exists. and it is precisely because they repress such things that they feel the need to attack people who have transcended it.
Well, I actually did not want to response to another anonymous dock but I guess I will anyway.
Look, I do not need to make use of SPG to link to my blog to get famous or whatever fuck shit. I am simply not like you who do not even have the balls to show who the fuck you are. And if you can't stand me, you can dun bother reading anything I type online, much less comment on it.
And the shit about the small prick, at least I have balls which you dun. So fuck off.
Thats y i say some people are stupid. Voicing out my opinions can turn to using this as a attention grabbing ploy. How irritating.
So sorry to all who had to see me blast these anonymous worms.
Sorry for doing so here SPG.
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You know it.
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